A few summers ago, I was up in Michigan visiting family. The focal point, my brother’s home, was crowded so I bedded down at a nearby hotel. It happened there was a lounge in the hotel and so it also happened that taking a break there after reunion time with family each day led me to meet a couple of new friends.
Even if these relationships would be passing in short order, three days to be exact, I would still call them friendships. We bonded over sharing our purposes for our travel and our daily episodes into life.
One of these people was a very beautiful woman, lesbian in sexual orientation. I’ll call her Mary. The other was a somewhat boisterous guy, all American male. Tom. And then there was me.
Continue reading The Beta Male – Being “Woke” – Part 3
Ok, so yesterday I talked about how I had attempted to write a story about the use of the slang word “Woke,” and how I didn’t quite land on the mark with that first draft. The post I was working on is part of a series I’ve waded into about the fray between gender roles, well, maybe gender behavior says it better. See my previous posts, “Query” and “Tse’itsi’nako – Thought Woman ‘Being Woke’ – Part 1.”
So, here’s take two – on the Bullshit post. 😊
Continue reading Bullshit – Take 2 – Being “Woke” – Part 2
Is writing about writing, writing?
Strange question perhaps, but I think I’ve mentioned somewhere before in a post that writing about the techniques of writing is not the same as “storytelling.” And I really do love storytelling.
Continue reading Debabelization – Our Webs of Words
Lately I’ve read some interesting blogs pointing out just how insignificant we, as humans, are. And I’ve read others about just how meaningful life is. I guess opposites attract 😊
Frankly, I’m torn, because these thought experiments bring me back to another interrelated concept and that is “purpose.”
Just what purpose are we supposed to fulfill? Or, stated another way, why are we here?
Continue reading Soulmass
I was out of breath as I reached the top of the bluff. But it was worth the hike. I now had a falcon’s-eye view out over the South Fork of the Snake River. Absolutely beautiful.
The sprawling flood plain to the East was fully plowed and planted. Potatoes, wheat, and alfalfa. And maybe a few specialty crops lay low in the distance. Broccoli, cauliflower, rhubarb, and cabbage. Casting different hues of green. Forest green to fern, to mantis, to dark pastel, to castelton.
Continue reading Serpents and Milkweeds
The wind picked up as I hit the fourth mile mark. The warm breeze wrapped around my face and lifted upward and to the East.
It had been a cool fifty degrees when I started my trek an hour and a half earlier, but once the sun crested thirty degrees above the horizon the temperature had been in a steady climb and was fueling the wind gusts that reminded you that the invisible vapor we breath is a powerful force. One not to misjudge. It is tornado season after all.
Continue reading The Star Beneath Our Feet
I’ve been doing a lot of stumbling lately.
I really like that word. Its main definition is about walking in an unsteady manner, being clumsy, to almost fall, or to make an error. Blunder. But I like the other definition, that of unexpectantly coming upon something – like truth.
Now that’s no error. That’s magic.
Continue reading Call of the Wild*
“I guess it comes down to a simple choice really, get busy living or get busy dying.”
– Andy talking with Red in The Shawshank Redemption.
I’ve always loved this quote. It seems simple enough, but there’s a lot to it. Some people say we are in the process of dying from the moment we are born. That’s an organic process. Can’t change it. Can’t stop it. But we can change what we’re doing when we’re alive. While we’re still breathing.
Continue reading Busy Living
Those of you who follow my blog know I’m constantly remarking about how powerful and fun words are. I love words. And if you can tell a story and manage to raise the image you’re trying to paint in another person’s mind, well, that’s when storytelling becomes art.
I love it when words can be used in alternative tenses. Past, present, and future. But they can also be used in multiple fashions. As a noun, adjective, and verb. All three.
But have you ever seen a proper noun be used with such multiplicity?
Continue reading What’s in a Name?
A couple of days ago my coffee pot died. It happens. Machines reach the end of their productive years just like us living, breathing beings. Usually sooner though. Entropy. That eternal state of decay.
Of course, when a machine bites the dust one of the things we think of is, “Did I get my money’s worth?” How many years did I get out of that coffee maker? Well, that sparked some memories. Not all that pleasant. And they began with the why.
Why did I get that coffee maker?
Continue reading Coffee
I dislike beginning another blog with a chant about being absent for a while, but there it is. I’ve not been here. I’ve been elsewhere.
But where is “elsewhere?”
I kind of like that word. In fact, if I ever incorporated a township, that’s what I’d name it – Elsewhere. And everyone would be invited to go there and take a mental vacation. And better yet, while you were there you could conjure up any type of reality you desired. The only limits would be the boundaries of your imagination.
Actually, I think we are all in Elsewhere every day.
Continue reading Elsewhere
We all misplace things from time-to-time. Car keys, your cell phone, a pair of glasses, a pen. Perhaps a favorite shirt. Of course, there is also the void. A vortex. That place where a single sock or the lids to our plastic containers seem to just vanish. To be swallowed up. Leaving behind the sad, unmatched partner, only to be discarded at a future date.
Their usefulness now lost . . .
And sometimes I think the spirits are messing with me. Because I search and search, retrace my steps, look in the same place multiple times, and there it is, my quarry, sitting in one of the same spots I’ve searched three times over. Only now it’s so obvious I can’t miss it if I tried.
I wonder ???
Over the years, I’ve tried to keep a copy of everything I’ve had published. It’s nice to have an electronic copy, but even better to have a hard copy. Something tangible. Something I can hold in my hands. Feel the texture of the paper. Smell the ink. Visualize the word placement. Hear the words as I read through them.
There’s something about the whole sensory experience that makes it more magical.
Continue reading A Worthy Trade
My grandfather, who I was named after, was born in Indiana in 1896. After fighting in the “Great War,” he returned to Indiana where he ran several businesses and raised his family. Rumors were that he had two families.
The clan had its share of characters back in the day.
At some point along his journey he acquired a watch. An Elgin pocket watch. A railroad watch. No one seems to know the exact story surrounding of how he came by this watch. He could have bought it or he could have taken it in trade for some of the many cigars he sold in his “City Club.”
Although it was gold-filled, it wasn’t one of those fancy watches used to mark social status. The ornate ones with jewels that weren’t part of the mechanism. No special engraving. No hand-painted or enamel designs. No animated scenes or characters turning in coordination with the hands.
No, this watch was used to tell time.
When my dad graduated high school, granddad sat my father down and explained that dad had reached a point in his life where he earned some recognition. He was now old enough and responsible enough to receive a precious gift. A timepiece to mark a rite of passage.
And so the watch was passed on to its first successor guardian.
Continue reading My Granddad’s Watch – Finis