“Gray Days” . . . Revisited

By Harold Stearley at Earthwalking

Last year I began a tradition. A tradition of repeating words. Words that I had written two years ago to describe the day and the season we were entering into.

While Winter is not officially upon us yet, the days of Autumn are winding down. Grandfather Sun is moving South. And the atmosphere is shifting into Gray.

I wrote about this “Gray.” It’s “color.” It’s feel. It’s taste. It’s sounds. It’s moods. And eventually, it’s brightness and it’s “Inner Fire.”

So as we enter this season of hibernation before the awakening and birth of new life in Spring, I share these words again. 🙂

I hope you will enjoy them.


In November, long before the Winter Solstice, we will experience the first of many “gray days.”  The trees now bare, having shed their leaves, draw charcoal lines across an infinite sky of nothingness.

Gray is considered to lie exactly between white and black and is actually called “achromatic,” which is a contradiction in terms – to have a colorless color?  It has also been described as refracting light without spectral color separation, or as having zero saturation and no hue.  And while we might struggle to find words to convey the absence of something, there are certainly plenty to describe the feelings that are aroused by these gray days.

As if they may be called “days,” residing, instead, somewhere between the light of day and darkness of night, a sort of twilight time.  An extended boundary between the birth and death of a day.

Simply stated, these gray days are depressing.  But that word is far too vague to instill a true sensory perception.  Drab, ashen, somber, leaden, stone cold, cineritious, favillous, worn, anemic, pasty, melancholic, sallow, blah, sullied, faded, dreary, muted, gloomy, caliginous, tenebrous, bleak, washed out, dismal, and uninspired.

These are the days that suck the Spirit right out of you.  Drab, as in lacking brightness; somber, as in humorless; leaden, as in a weight too heavy to bear; ashen, as in the color of death.  And they come, one after the other, after the other . . . trampling the psyche.

Uninspired. Cold. Despairing.  Why would one bother exiting a warm, soft bed on such a day?  The coffee will taste burnt.  Cream putrid. The muffin, singed.  Butter rancid.  Life pales when Grandfather Sun fades, when he retreats to the southern hemisphere.

The Winter months are described symbolically as representing death before the season of rebirth – Spring.  But there is surely beauty lying within the bleak, even if buried or hibernating in the heart.

It can be unveiled in the snow. Crystalline water sparkling like diamonds.

It’s exhibited in the cedars.  Their healing ever-green luminescence.  Their balsamic, terpenic perfume.

It’s manifest with the birds.  Cardinals, Indigo Buntings, Chickadees, and Finches, even in their winter cloaks, radiate brilliant color and warmth.  They hang in the branches like dazzling ornaments on a Christmas Tree.

It’s uncovered when a doe emerges from her winter bed with her fawns.  Shy and diminutive, alluring brown eyes, graceful as they glide over the snow-covered terrain.

Even the cold, biting wind on these days has balmy stories to tell.  If we listen.  It whispers the legends of wolves on the hunt, devouring their prey to feed the fire burning in their bones.   It speaks of the silent flight of the Owl through the forest.  Their yellow eyes of the night, penetrating the hidden aspects of the Soul.  Their tufted ears, hearing with clairvoyance.  They see and hear all.  You cannot hide.

The gray is really a dreamscape.  A blank canvass upon which our minds may paint surrealistic animations.  Silhouettes of structures.  Wild beasts and sensuous lovers.  Warm glows emanating from wood stoves and candle light.  Reflections as old as time.

This artistry, this imagery, burns brightly in our consciousness.  A fire in our hearts that can never be extinguished.  We are the keepers of this eternal flame.

As Thoreau observed:

“There is a slumbering subterranean fire in nature which never goes out, and which no cold can chill…. This subterranean fire has its altar in each [person’s] breast, for in the coldest day, and on the bleakest hill, the traveler cherishes a warmer fire within the folds of [their] cloak than is kindled on any hearth. A healthy [person], indeed, is the complement of the seasons, and in winter, summer is in [their] heart.”

Yes, why would someone roust themselves from their slumbers on such a bleak, gray day?  To write about it, of course . . .

Photo:  I caught this scene early one December morning.  The humidity and cold created “ice fog.”  This fog lifts, having painted the trees with a coating of ice.  The ice lasted about fifteen minutes before the air had become warm enough to melt it.  The world of images, ever transient.

** If you are wondering about the bracketed words in the quote, I replaced all of the male oriented pronouns with gender neutral ones.  The writers of old, while quite eloquent, often wrote as though women didn’t exist.  I don’t particularly care for that.

31 thoughts on ““Gray Days” . . . Revisited”

  1. EXACTLY how I feel about November, Hank! If we have 3 or more gray days in a row, I’m a mess! When the sun passes the 10-hour day mark early in Nov., I start drawing down my summer reserves. I have to take Vit. D and work at my psyche daily in order to make it until Feb. 1 when the days once again pass 10-hours. SAD is no joke. Good piece of writing!

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    1. Thanks so much. And thanks for picking up on one of my nicknames ! 🙂 earned that one up when I was in Ag School 🐂🐃🐄 Until a couple years ago SAD really didn’t affect me too much. But after living out in Az for six months and returning to the Midwest – Wow! These gray days really slap my psyche around too. I wish you the best warm, glowing, and bright Winter 🌞


      1. No big preference. Harold is an old family name passed down through the generations. It seems out-dated now. I like “H” and I like being called by my last name “Stearley.” A bit of irony there. When I tried out the computer dating pages I received little interest having used the name Harold but when I switched it to Stearley my hits went up dramatically 😄

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  2. What a picture you paint my friend, upon natures canvas which only compliments your success. Because in the city, I think we really do hibernate in the winter. At least us adults do, subconsciously. But as you’ve so beautifully described, it is a much different story when paired with nature. Like the winter scene of your photo, no thoughts of cold or being cold and miserable. Just the silent awe of beauty, winter gray and all.
    Like when we were kids, never cold, never dreary, never down on winter. Just a new and exciting outdoor adventure awaiting us in a landscape now covered in snow. Thanks for the flashback Harold! Some of my best memories as a child happened outside in the winter. Then inside after, warming by the fire. Be well my friend!

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    1. Thanks so much! I’m happy to have sparked some good remembrances. And thank you my friend for reminding me of our childhoods. What wonderful visions I now have dancing about in my head. As you say, we were never cold. I loved sleading so much, I’d never quit until I was totally exhausted 😁

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  3. November can be very dreary, but I do like the quiet, the settling after the summer months of business (of course, this year has been very different, thanks to Covid). Still, pandemics aside, the air is very cool, but still nice enough to venture outside and at least there are no insects or wasps to deal with, there’s that. Yet, truth be told, my bed is an inviting place in late fall and into winter. I wish I were a bear so I could hibernate until spring.

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  4. I really enjoyed this. I especially loved the following paragraph: “It’s manifest with the birds. Cardinals, Indigo Buntings, Chickadees, and Finches, even in their winter cloaks, radiate brilliant color and warmth. They hang in the branches like dazzling ornaments on a Christmas Tree.” Beautiful imagery. Thank you. Where I live all of those wonderful birds abound as well as the beautiful Blue Jays. When I meditate in front of our big picture window overlooking the backyard, I often am blessed with seeing these wonderful creatures. Enjoy your day, my friend. Stay well. ❤ ❤

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